i am confused about my future. People say make a goal, fight and achieve it.
Is it so easy? At times i have many things in my mind and certainly goals. I wonder how people say to make a single goal. goal for what? I can fight. But a person always have different priorities at different time, place and relation. Now if all are important and clashes with each other then what is the solution. If i focus on one goal then certainly i am losing many other goals and "i am not a looser". Thing is i don't want to compromise my career and family. May be it is sound like traveling in two boats. which is risky and difficult but for me it is the ultimate goal. May be for many people is like"fighting for nothing" but for me it is like "fighting for everything".
I think success is directly related to satisfaction.
and more correctly satisfaction is directly related to success.
Friday, March 23, 2012
Saturday, November 12, 2011
changes in my life
Hi. after long time. suddenly life become busy or may be i was not enough motivated. but today when i saw my blog . one think comes to my mind "man not bad, thoughts are more important than grammar and improved as the professionalism grows'.
well i am writing after almost after 20 months. only thing changes are PC , few of my cloths, mobile phone from nokia 6030 to blackberry curve to nokia x6 and next may be Iphone.
work is same as before and from last few months working on a project called Edu-Networking, based on social issue Right to Education.
few new friends in life , but still no girl- friend, may be because they are so complicated. anyways will not discuss more. it requires a full post or 2.
purchased a car Alto for convenience obviously choice of my pocket but still dreams for SUV. hope day will come.
Learned few things :
1) earning money is not most difficult part of life but spending time alone, although its very rare in my life because i try to keep myself busy. but the taste of being alone is like
you have lots of things in your mind (some times nothing but) to share, no-one in your surroundings, every guy or girl you call is busy at that time and they hang up call by saying "dude busy call you later", tracks in music player changes every 10 seconds and everything becomes so boring. but interesting fact is this feeling is overcome by guy 10 times faster than a girl.
2) if you have some extra skills or ability or advice, share it to everyone except your boss. he will either ignore you or give full responsibility for same without decreasing other responsibilities and also without sound appraisal. The reason may be he has not enough courage to take risk.
The best way is to believe yourself, take extra pain, work hard, share it to people and internet and try to generate results. Make your idea large with sets of results and patience. try not to depend wholesomely on other person.
3) people with smiling faces are approached first because every other person in this world has some problems or tension in his life and he wants good faces to talk so that he can feel food, forget problems/ tensions for that moment.
No one can solve your problem except you yourself so don't bring it on your face and keep smiling
well i am writing after almost after 20 months. only thing changes are PC , few of my cloths, mobile phone from nokia 6030 to blackberry curve to nokia x6 and next may be Iphone.
work is same as before and from last few months working on a project called Edu-Networking, based on social issue Right to Education.
few new friends in life , but still no girl- friend, may be because they are so complicated. anyways will not discuss more. it requires a full post or 2.
purchased a car Alto for convenience obviously choice of my pocket but still dreams for SUV. hope day will come.
Learned few things :
1) earning money is not most difficult part of life but spending time alone, although its very rare in my life because i try to keep myself busy. but the taste of being alone is like
you have lots of things in your mind (some times nothing but) to share, no-one in your surroundings, every guy or girl you call is busy at that time and they hang up call by saying "dude busy call you later", tracks in music player changes every 10 seconds and everything becomes so boring. but interesting fact is this feeling is overcome by guy 10 times faster than a girl.
2) if you have some extra skills or ability or advice, share it to everyone except your boss. he will either ignore you or give full responsibility for same without decreasing other responsibilities and also without sound appraisal. The reason may be he has not enough courage to take risk.
The best way is to believe yourself, take extra pain, work hard, share it to people and internet and try to generate results. Make your idea large with sets of results and patience. try not to depend wholesomely on other person.
3) people with smiling faces are approached first because every other person in this world has some problems or tension in his life and he wants good faces to talk so that he can feel food, forget problems/ tensions for that moment.
No one can solve your problem except you yourself so don't bring it on your face and keep smiling
Monday, April 5, 2010
Lucy, Unlucky!
Weekend is over and I didn’t post anything and I don’t have any valid reason so I thought today to leave everything and to write something and thinking about something I have one think in my mind to write about parallel universe but writing on it takes lot of time so I thought to write about it in other post.
Because I want to write my first write up here. I have written it my college time. I still remember I was only physically present in class at last bench. The class was so boring and I had nothing to do and I started writing anything because many things were simultaneously choking my mind in those last days of college. Although I was not able to express exactly in words what was in my mind. But that was my first write up and I thought to post that write up today:-
Lucky, Unlucky!!
Chance, by chance!!
Does life change in a second? I think yes. There is the time in everyone’s life when time suddenly changes, something is different in surrounding. Feelings are changed. Expectations are different. Some drastic change may be positive to negative or negative to positive. The period when shift is taking place may not necessary is realized but after changes if one look backward everything was changed, dreams changed, suddenly target, focus of life changed and even path changed.
Whatever it may be accepting the changes, learning and gaining experience from it and removing fear of being low or being high. There is no other way. Just being confident nor under confident nor over confident.
Whatever may be new time is bad or good just learn and ready for another change.
Good time is to work efficiently and growing very fast and bad time is for learing and experiences this world. Both are amazing period of life.
I am writing all this because my time is changed and I feel soon again my time will change and I will write about it again.
"Letting go has never been easy, but holding on can be as difficult. Yet strength is measured not by holding on, but by letting go."
-Len Santos
"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving"
-Albert Einstein
"You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore"
-Christopher Columbus
Sunday, March 28, 2010
people for government
It was again a very boring Sunday for me and again I thought today to write something to make it fruitful. As all we have studied many times from our childhood about democracy, constitution, etc. .. don’t worry I am not gonna explain any history.
Government of people, by people, for people. Ohh these lines are very familiar to us. But one thing struck to my mind. Is it right government for people? According to me is reverse i.e. people for the government.
We live in this country like we are servants of government but actually government is our servant. I hope you understand everything is opposite. There are certain rules which are applicable on us and we follow them forcefully but do the government following that rules. Is there body that checks and take action on government. See the conditions of government department.
None wants to work. We are paying their salaries. They are our employee and they need to take care of our work but in actually situation is extremely different. They treat as like animal and avoid whatever we say. There are two ways to get done work in govt departments one is pay them bribe and second try to link some relation with higher authorities otherwise an year long time would not finish your work.
Clearly a common man pays some part of salaries to every official of govt body (obviously in form of taxes) but he does not get back that return. Forget what government gives data. Less than 20 percent of collected tax is used for us and rest more than 80 percent goes in salaries, securities of higher officials, and in Swiss banks accounts of politician. WOW. I hope now you understand why I said “people for the government”.
If a common man forget to submit any of his bill then he is penalize by some amount .ok. That’s fine and that is needed for development of country. What if any govt department is late in anything none is penalized. For example if any train or flight is late by some hours then that department should penalize that is also needed for country development. Rule is rule. Government is also forced to follow rule that a common man is following.
It’s the responsibility of govt to provide education and medical facility to every citizen but do we really getting them.. no.. all goes in Swiss bank. See the condition of roads which always require improvement why.. Because for eg if a bill passed from government for a work only 30% is used and 70% again in pockets of politician and contractors.
Overall thinking like entrepreneur all kinds of taxes quarterly and yearly say 100 debited from our accounts and credited 20 as government salaries 10 as actual work done and 70 as black money in accounts of politician and government employees. Strange whatever we earn as white and pay taxes. 70 percent of taxes are directly converted into black. It means country (or our) growth is suppressed by 70 % than actually it could have been.
Wake up. Only 1 percent of total corruption is explained above. We should do something for country.
**all above data mention is from author’s mind (but ya almost correct)
Government of people, by people, for people. Ohh these lines are very familiar to us. But one thing struck to my mind. Is it right government for people? According to me is reverse i.e. people for the government.
We live in this country like we are servants of government but actually government is our servant. I hope you understand everything is opposite. There are certain rules which are applicable on us and we follow them forcefully but do the government following that rules. Is there body that checks and take action on government. See the conditions of government department.
None wants to work. We are paying their salaries. They are our employee and they need to take care of our work but in actually situation is extremely different. They treat as like animal and avoid whatever we say. There are two ways to get done work in govt departments one is pay them bribe and second try to link some relation with higher authorities otherwise an year long time would not finish your work.
Clearly a common man pays some part of salaries to every official of govt body (obviously in form of taxes) but he does not get back that return. Forget what government gives data. Less than 20 percent of collected tax is used for us and rest more than 80 percent goes in salaries, securities of higher officials, and in Swiss banks accounts of politician. WOW. I hope now you understand why I said “people for the government”.
If a common man forget to submit any of his bill then he is penalize by some amount .ok. That’s fine and that is needed for development of country. What if any govt department is late in anything none is penalized. For example if any train or flight is late by some hours then that department should penalize that is also needed for country development. Rule is rule. Government is also forced to follow rule that a common man is following.
It’s the responsibility of govt to provide education and medical facility to every citizen but do we really getting them.. no.. all goes in Swiss bank. See the condition of roads which always require improvement why.. Because for eg if a bill passed from government for a work only 30% is used and 70% again in pockets of politician and contractors.
Overall thinking like entrepreneur all kinds of taxes quarterly and yearly say 100 debited from our accounts and credited 20 as government salaries 10 as actual work done and 70 as black money in accounts of politician and government employees. Strange whatever we earn as white and pay taxes. 70 percent of taxes are directly converted into black. It means country (or our) growth is suppressed by 70 % than actually it could have been.
Wake up. Only 1 percent of total corruption is explained above. We should do something for country.
**all above data mention is from author’s mind (but ya almost correct)
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Everyone moved on....
From last week I was not getting any topic but one thing i was sure about I will write soon. I had several things in my mind like success, satisfaction, life philosophy, money. But today in evening i got call from my friend and we discussed lot of things of many were common in our lives. It’s all about changes we all had in our life after college. Everyone become busy in his life and all of us left with lots of promises and memories.
Memories: brings smile on our face when we start thinking but soon we started getting mixed feelings and ended with sad note “those days are gone”.
Promises: we all had from each other directly or indirectly but do we really mean them and what we have expected is totally different in real scenario. Those who were expected closest are not in contact even and some are unbelievably in contact.. huhh this is life.............. “Unexpected is expected”.
One thing always remain we cannot forget none of them forever. We all had both good and bad times with our loved ones and shared many things. We were kid when we joined college and become mature when we left college. Those 4 years of period or phase was turning point of our life and may be this is the reason we will never forget anyone. Time moved on… you moved on .. I moved on.. everyone moved on.. ...... “Oh yeah this is life”.
Moving ahead is path to success and is must. Obviously will gain more and pay less. But one thing we all should keep in our mind we should not become so mature or selfish that we want everything cos in search of everything we lost one thing that is worth everything.
Friday, March 12, 2010
what is success
what is success.. a person should have vision in his life with set of goals and ability to fight to achieve it. no matter how difficult it be.. nothing is impossible even infinity is a number. what exactly required - hard work, concentration, patience that's all.
success does not mean money or wealth or lavish life. its about satisfaction and satisfaction comes only on the pathway of focused goal. life gives only one chance of infinite options and success comes on targeting right options at right time.
achieving goal means achieving success and achieving success means real happiness is waiting at next door. every human comes to this beautiful world for some reason or purpose and success means achieving that reason or purpose.
success does not mean money or wealth or lavish life. its about satisfaction and satisfaction comes only on the pathway of focused goal. life gives only one chance of infinite options and success comes on targeting right options at right time.
achieving goal means achieving success and achieving success means real happiness is waiting at next door. every human comes to this beautiful world for some reason or purpose and success means achieving that reason or purpose.
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